Corvid-19 update
I won’t be canceling any of my weddings or engagement shoots. I am however ready to take on any new business from those who are unable to. A majority of what I do can be at a safe distance. Even my meetings have been switched to Skype & FaceTime. Most current weddings into April have been canceled by venues and those brides and going to be looking for new dates and hopefully i’ll have your date later in the year open.
First off, I don’t have the Corona virus.
If you’re a current bride or groom: I won’t be canceling any of my weddings or engagement shoots. I am however ready to take on any new business from those who are unable to. A majority of what I do, can be at a safe distance. Even my meetings have been switched to Skype & FaceTime. Most venues aren’t choosing to cancel dates but have mandated to do so by the government. Feel free to give me a call when rebooking with a venue and I can let you know on the spot if I have your date available. Try and work with multiple dates from a venue if possible. More likely to be able to stick with you through all this with more options.
I am currently under self quarantine. I spend the majority of my day currently thinking about what I’ll eat and when and which YouTube video i’ll watch along with that. I’m also keeping busy by organizing, editing, sorting and building infrastructure as well as marketing. This shut down of the American way of life has affected me the same as everyone else, unexpectedly. I’ve always been somewhat prepared for extended stays at home. As a wedding photographer I have to wait for my payday. I don’t ask for money up front or portions of it leading up to a wedding. I couldn’t imagine the pain of being a photographer with a canceled wedding who has to give back a large retainer or deposit. So because of not taking money before a wedding I usually am stocked up on toilet paper, soaps, cleaning supplies and food. This only meant that when I went to the store to pick up a little extra last week it wasn’t imperative and more luxuries I was partaking in; sweets, meats and salty foods.
I depend on weddings to make payments to all my bills from mortgage down to my Spotify premium account (I just can’t stand those commercials). I have yet to see any cancellations from any of my forty four brides and grooms. I’ve already shot a half dozen weddings this year with the majority set to begin at the end of April. I’m looking forward to getting back to normalcy and keeping myself nice and healthy in the meantime; taking my vitamins, exercising, resting and waiting. This post is more to let my current brides and grooms know that i’m not planning on going anywhere, fleeing to the Corona virus free island off of Massachusetts. If you have any worries, then just call of course.
I’m not going to go much further into how bad it could get or what’s already happened because of this shut down. I’ve seen too much of that on Facebook as it is and don’t need to contribute, it’s bad. I’m just waiting for the spring, summer and time to pass so I can get back to doing what I love. I feel terribly for those who are going through financial hardships as well as the mental. There’s so many businesses i’ve seen who I thought were rock solid that are being hit so hard. Some laying off employees temporarily and others struck with the possibility of having to close permanently. Those of you in the beauty industry and food industry that interact with people directly have lost their income abruptly and I wish the best for you. I hope this is all over as quick as it came.
Stay safe and #StayTheFuckHome
Here’s some of my favorite photos i’ve taken at weddings.
Bride, groom, photographer and.... i'll come help!!!!!
When you see a photographer, bride and groom head off away from the wedding reception or somewhere during the day you should totally follow and help them out by asking them questions and offering suggestions and also giving constructive criticism during this and maybe giving social media updates. Kidding, don't do this!
I wanted to recap on something I run into every fifth or sixth wedding. An entourage of family and friends that want to help during the couples photos. This sometimes is following the ceremony or a more private moment sometime during the reception. I'm not going to specifically reference exact details but wanted to tell you how most circumstances unfold. This is for informational purposes / venting purposes... i'm only human. :) The photos in this blog do not reflect any specific weddings where this occurred, they're just pretty photos.
I really like to write exactly like I talk and this is a story i've told brides and grooms before. I wanted to take the time and write this out for other brides, grooms and fellow photographers who may or may not yet have encountered this moment.
Please hold your phone side ways to read it to correctly view the conversation's proper exchange. Otherwise this post will just sound a little too weird.
Here's a few moments with just the bride and groom to help give example to special moments that unfold during these private photos.
Me to bride & groom: Okay, the clouds just parted way to beautiful sun rays and a deep blue sky with a rainbow... let's go run and get a few photos. Okay.. ready. Let's go. Sweet!
Me: Totally cool. You just have to stand back a bit because I need their complete focus.
BRIDAL COUPLES PHOTOS START
Friend or family member: (talking on phone) Yeah, we're behind the building, come on over.
Friend or family member: (one minute passes) You should both hold hands and do this thing where you make a heart and...
Friend or family member: That looked really pretty, you should have them go over there next and stand on that rock. Oh hey Jim (another family or friend walks over).
Me: Could I have you folks just give us a little bit of room so I can have their complete focus while I do the photos. Just for a few minutes.
Friend or family member: Hi Denise (now a third family member has joined because they saw the five of us standing over here and wanted to see what we were doing).
Friend or family member: I'll come help. I'll come and watch. I want to take a photo with my phone so I'll come along with you.
Friend or family member: Of course, no problem. I'll just stand back and won't say a word.
Friend or family member: Hey you should take photos over by the wall there. Tim and Diane got their photos there.
Me talking to bride & groom: Okay, look back over here. Okay, I need you to move slightly over to the left and focus on each other and..
Me talking to bride & groom: That's perfect, I just need you to slightly turn a little bit more this way and... perfect.
Me talking to bride & groom: Okay, look back over here again. (looks over at family or friend and reaffirms the need to stand back and not converse). Okay move slightly over to the left and focus on each other and move in slightly towards a kiss but don't kiss yet.
Me talking to bride & groom: Let's take a walk down this path over here and what i'm going to have you do is do a slow walk, hold hands, talk and have a moment to yourselves while I take photos.
Friend or family member: What are you guys doing, are you taking photos right now. It's very pretty over here.
Friend or family member: (All the friends and family): Totally, no problem. We just want to hang out and watch.
Me: Could I have you all step over this way while I do their photos, I only have about three more minutes before we have to head back.
Friend or family member: (Two minutes pass) Hey (directed towards bride and groom), are you both going over to the hotel after or heading back home, Rob is texting me and wanted to know. Hey can we get a photo with you over there in a few minutes.
You get the point.
What really happens is the bride and groom don't actually get a private moment to themselves for these special photos that they're going to have for the rest of their lives. Think about your parents or grandparents wedding photos and now imagine that they could have had a dozen other special ones equal or greater than those ones.
Everything always starts off with good intentions. I'll hold your drink, let me hold up your dress, I want to come and watch, I have a quick question, can we get a quick photo, can I take a photo with my friend, this person wanted to know this question, what are you guys doing.
I've had a bridesmaid rush in after each test shot to fix a brides dress. When i'm setting up a magical photo that will be hung on their wall from now until the end of time i'm going to put a little extra care into everything. I'll be adjusting power levels, exposure and position of lights for maybe a dozen photos before I even think about a final pose. Before i'm even ready to start posing a bride i've had the bridesmaid try and jump start the photos by posing them and positioning them and after each test fire (too bright, not bright enough, not in the right position, add a second or third light) run in and turn a two minute photo session into a ten minute "are we done yet" sorta mood. This is just another example of moments that I run into. :)
I'm never going to be rude to a bride & grooms wedding guests, family, friends. I'm never going to be rude to the wedding coordinator / planner who wants to stand next to me and count down every single minute of our remaining time (This happens usually during formal photos). You in fact will never know if you got in the way. If you make a weird suggestion or try and hijack a moment i'm most likely going to humor you and go along with it and a smile. It's always going to be easier to say good idea and take a photo or two and then move on to my shots.
Every single wedding I've made it part of my routine to borrow the bride and groom for additional photos post reception moments like bouquet toss or cake cutting. Most of these moments go off without a hitch but occasionally I get someone who wants to tag along. During your wedding day you're going to be surrounded by people the entire day, ball & chain to a schedule of events and have the same thingss repeated at you for hours (wheres the honey moon, do you feel different, you must be tired, congratulations). This is typically a moment to breathe, have a bit of quiet and also a special moment with your husband or wife.
I know this post most likely won't change how the next twenty years of weddings go or in fact anyone will actually read this. But it's therapeutic at best and helps keep me sane in moments that I cannot control. These are moments that brides & grooms don't know about until their wedding day and it's actually happening. They're very much on my side when i've had to occasionally shush off people. So if you ever see a bride, groom and photographer head off to get photos I can almost guarantee that they will be just fine if you wait to talk to them when they return.
In the end i'm there to take beautiful photos and be nice to people even if they are stepping on my feet. I hope this wasn't too offensive and if it was, you might be that person tagging along during photos. ;)
Jillian & Jarrod
Jillian & Jarrod at Revere Beach. Engagement shoot. www.unitymike.com wedding photo
Spent a little time on Revere beach and afterwards we got some Italian subs at New Deal Fruit.
A thousand images!
What's an apprioate amount of wedding photos to receive? I talk about the upside and downside of what the client receives when the wedding is over. All wedding photographers and future brides and grooms should read this.
So this just popped into my head, this idea of a thousand images or more for wedding photos. This is something I support, I've always support this from day one. I am writing this for brides, grooms and fellow photographers.
There will always be criticism about the amount of wedding photos you share with clients or on the other end of the spectrum receive from a photographer because more often than not you wouldn't mind a few dozen or hundred more to look at or a bunch more to share.
So originally I would give upwards of fifteen hundred images because I felt like I was holding images captive. If I had fifteen hundred images but only gave them five hundred, why? I prided myself in giving this extra value to my brides, grooms, clients, friends and family. Everyone was very happy after all at all the extra photos.
So the images that are completely cut from a wedding that are not used are the following, peoples backs, unflattering faces (not to be confused with a funny face or two which the bridal couple will enjoy), bad micro-expression, unflattering light, blurry photo, obscene, unflattering photo of bridal couple, duplicates of same pose unless there was a significant change in facial expression or posture possibly, bad hand placement during group photos. This is only a small multitude of examples of reasons.
The remainder of the photos are variations of moments, different angles, views and composition. These are the usable photos, the ones that can be saved, shared and looked back on. Some of the photos are a series of an event happening and not just the pinnacle of the moment.
So i'm going to start with the downside of sharing this amount of photos. We as wedding photographers typically take more photos than we need. We do this because we don't know who's going to blink or if someone will suddenly have a horrible twitch in their face or move their hand to look like a t-rex's arm. Lots of photos, lots of options, lower risk of fucking up, better chance of getting something damn near close to magical. With all these photos you have to go through and perform triage, saying yes or no to which photos live and which ones die; a very important responsibility. More photos to look through can mean longer wait times for clients and also longer processing time for photographers.
Now when you give someone fifteen hundred photos that means they have lots of options, maybe too many options. The first dance photos maybe two dozen instead of a select six. When you have two dozen photos verses six that means that the most outstanding, perfect photo will take a bit longer to catch your eye or stand out. It also creates the perception that you quickly edited the photos and are giving them everything without selecting the bad ones to get rid of. You are also putting your photos up against your friends photos or other bride's photos where they have gotten the top fifteen percent of the wedding photos that were taken that day.
Let's use a box of donuts as comparison. I'm going to present you with a dozen donuts, some are chocolate frosted, a few chocolate frosted with sprinkles and maybe a chocolate glazed as well as the jelly, a french (You actually only capitalize french if it is a product of said country) cruller, and an additional complement of donuts. Now lets take that nice looking dozen and put it up against six good looking donuts, jelly, chocolate frosted, french cruller, blueberry, glazed, old fashioned. So you have a perfect assortment but maybe not a bunch of variations on donuts.
So here's the upside of sharing as many photos as is reasonable. The most important reason first, you don't know who is important to the bride or groom. We don't know if they've seen their uncle or aunt in the past twenty years. We don't know if they don't get along with their parents and have reconciled for the sake of family and wedding. We don't know if their parents are divorced and this si the first time they've been in a room together in ten years. Their parents may live on the other side of the country, their sister may be in the army and home for the first time in two years.
So when you make the choice to not include a photo of Uncle John giving a hug or crying at the wedding then you forsaking a once in a lifetime moment. You are the judge, jury and executioner when it comes to the selection of photos given. Why not lessen the risk of incorporating beautiful moments that you might not realize are happening right in front of your lens.
I once had a wedding where I was going through the routine of getting all the moments, all the guests and performing top notch wedding photography. I spent around a month editing the photos and ordering the flash drive and finally presenting the photos. I found out that the bride's aunt had died shortly after from cancer and she was only in maybe three or four photos. She asked if I had more. Apparently the aunt had raised her since she was a preteen, she had meant more to get than her own mother in some sense. I had no idea and this killed me that I couldn't do more for this bride. I'm only sharing this because I want to really impress upon you that we don't know who is special to the bride or groom and we have no idea the great history in everyone's relationships. The wedding guests are chosen very carefully and they're there to witness a huge landmark in a person's life.
So when you give variation, option, choices you are allowing them to choose the best version of themselves in photos. You are giving permission for them to remember moments that they will most likely have missed on their wedding day. It's a little bit extra work to edit a few extra hundred photos, but you get better and faster at it. Is it all worth it, sharing this many photos? Damn right it's worth it and I don't regret it for one second. Those extra photos usually mean that everyone who attended that wedding can find a flattering, fun and amazing photo of themselves or someone they love. This means they share, they brag and hopefully they say who took their photo.
I always argue about this with fellow photographers, I think I always will. I started giving out these extra photos as an added value to my product but through the years i've learned that this added value isn't quantity, it's beautiful moments that I didn't know were happening.
Fire in Worcester, 43 Bowdoin St & 40 Williams
April 24th, 2014. Fire at Bowdoin Street and building behind house on Williams Street. I happened to be in my car with some equipment and headed over to get some photos. When I arrived and made my way around the area to various angles I could see that the Worcester Fire Department had the fire well under control. Police blocked off the streets and neighbors watched. A few residents from the building were in the area and we're easy to spot. I wish them the best and hope family and friends can help them out like I was helped with my apartment fire a few years ago.
Today there was a fire at 43 Bowdoin St & 40 Williams St in Worcester, Massachusetts. From talking to a neighbor across the street I found out a few details. The man that I talked to was across the street a ways and on the 3rd floor when he watched the fire starting. He believes it was started from a grill that was on a stairway and the fire had caught onto the building and traveled to the attic and adjacent building.
When I arrived the fire had been contained from what I could tell. Multiple companies on site and special services. Fire fighters on the roof of the Williams Street location and also on the Bowdoin Street address as well. The fire was poking out from the roof in the front of the building as firefighters used two hoses on it. A better account of the progression can be found at ScanWorcester on Twitter and at The Telegram & Gazette. If you're from Worcester i'm sure you'll also be able to find a friend or three that have photos, videos and stories. Hopefully everyone can help these families out who are displaced by this terrible accident.